Purposeful Serendipities

Home from my last day of my amazing internship (Teardrop), and I came across this link involving a little boy who loves wearing dresses and his encouraging mother who wrote a book to school the public and make a profit. It's so interesting you can't look away.




I wonder what the long term effects will be for the little boy as he grows older. Will he continue to wear pink and dress in dresses and skirts, will he begin to like boys and take on stereotypical female traits, or will he grow up and conform to what society to believes to be "proper" boy/man behavior and regret or feel ashamed and feel embarassed by his childhood and resent his mother for the exploitation?!?!?!

I definitley applaud the mother for accepting her child as he is, and allowing him the opportunity to explore his likes, dislikes, and preferences. I rememeber working at KB Toys and watching some little boys throw tantrums in front of the princess dress up section, because their mother refused to buy them a dress. Maybe the toy companies should take a hint and make army and "boy toys" more appealing. I mean "bling" "diamond" "rhinestone" or admired by all poor and rich, so why not bling out some army trucks and army hat and make some pink plastic army guys not only for the little boy who likes the color pink, but for the little girls who like playing with "boy toys".

Anyway i'm tired but felt the need to post this.

OOOO (Hugs No Kisses!)
The InExperienced Expert

As I’m strutting through the halls of my office building, minding my own business every now and then I get a shout out for my shoes. I’m a shoe-a-holic so I can appreciate the feedback on my shoe game! Having a shoegasm in the store is the best feeling, especially when you continue to have that experience each time you wear those shoes.

Now I’m not crazy!!!! You may be thinking they are just shoes, but I’m going to need to set up the stage for you.

Guys: You’re sitting at a table in your own world, and then you hear the click and clacks of the heels you then proceed to look up and you see a woman in some nice stilettos, walking with an air of confidence that is so overwhelming you can’t even look away.

Ladies: Walk with me (Literally!). Think of your nicest pair of shoes, the one that each time you see you go damn these shoes are sexy all on their own, and then think about how you feel when you put them on your feet. (Yup, I hear it already. Ohhhhh Ahhhh!!!!!!)

I’m not going to lie, and say that pumps and stilettos are the most comfortable shoes in the world, because I will kick them bad boys off in a minute to put on some flats to chill in. But I love the way a pair of sexy heels make me feel. It’s like the entire attitude and confidence that the shoe possess, I begin to possess as well.

When I’m strutting in pumps, I feel taller and sexier. I guess more confident in the respect that with a fly ass pair of shoes, there is no denying How ”bad” I look.

I wonder if there’s a mental aspect to it?!?!? I mean when we put on rain boots or constructions boot, or raggedy ass sneakers does our personality or the way we feel about ourselves change accordingly. I mean I’m not expecting guys to walk around with heels on, so that they can feel sexier or confident but could it be we are what we walk in?!?!?

Let’s Play a Game: Sneakerality! – Look at pics A – H and let me know what each picture would make you feel like or how it would make you walk if you had them on your feet.















SOUND OFF: Please sound off if you have a Shoe Addiction, or if you feel that your shoes talk to you and alters your persona to some degree.

**For any further information on this topic google it, or click on the Psychology Today "The Psychology of Women - What is the Meaning of High Heels?"

Keep Strutting your stuff,
OOOO (Hugs No Kisses),

The InExperienced Expert

Anyone who knows me knows that when I don’t eat, they might as well move out my way before I push them out of my way literally. PSA: Don’t mess with a girl who shopping on an empty stomach!!!!! COMPLY! COMPLY! COMPLY! j/k

Considering my many encounters with being Hangry, I decided to come up with Tips on dealing with Hangry People!

1. Don’t continue annoying them! If you know the thing that annoys them most, now would not be the time to test out how to piss them off the fastest.


2. If they ask you a question or for an opinion. Shit, you better provide some kind of valid feedback, better than “Whatever you think”.


3. Snacks and any other food you can swing their way to hold them over will win you major “Brownie Points”!


4. If you know they are a picky eater and don’t eat items (A-Z) try to remember their dislikes, rather than bringing up spots that you know is going to make them want to smack you.


5. If you know someone who is hangry, don’t continue to deprive them of food it will only get worse! (I’m speaking from experience, I am a frequent victim of food deprivation)


6. Don’t bring them around food you have no attention or buying or know that they cannot afford!


7. Make attempts to feed them to show you care or understand the situation at hand


8. Realize that their moods will fluctuate from happy, sad, to I want to kick your ass, They are not bi-polar just a little moody.


9. Refrain from making fun of how quick they devoured the food. They will be in a better mood, but don’t think that now that their stomach is full they won’t kick you ass!


10. Guys if you dealing with a woman, be understanding. Guys if you dealing with a man, pass him a stick of gum or whatever is in your pocket stale or not. (Guys typically eat anything!) Ladies if you are dealing with a woman (try to put down your bitch smacking hand and understand the hunger pains). Ladies if you are dealing with a guy who is hangry (remind him not to get out of line and that your trying to think of the quickest way to feed their belly)!

Lol, don’t take my tips to heart when your working with your Hangry Cry Baby, but just keep in mind how you would feel if you were super hungry with stomach pains, sitting in a traffic jam where you could see the restaurant you want to go eat at, but the congestion of traffic is preventing you from pulling in to that parking lot! Damn, just typing that I could feel the pain of that individual!

Until next time

OOOO (Hugs No Kisses),

The InExperienced Expert