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Psychology of Heels!!!!!

Author: The InExperienced Expert // Category:
As I’m strutting through the halls of my office building, minding my own business every now and then I get a shout out for my shoes. I’m a shoe-a-holic so I can appreciate the feedback on my shoe game! Having a shoegasm in the store is the best feeling, especially when you continue to have that experience each time you wear those shoes.

Now I’m not crazy!!!! You may be thinking they are just shoes, but I’m going to need to set up the stage for you.

Guys: You’re sitting at a table in your own world, and then you hear the click and clacks of the heels you then proceed to look up and you see a woman in some nice stilettos, walking with an air of confidence that is so overwhelming you can’t even look away.

Ladies: Walk with me (Literally!). Think of your nicest pair of shoes, the one that each time you see you go damn these shoes are sexy all on their own, and then think about how you feel when you put them on your feet. (Yup, I hear it already. Ohhhhh Ahhhh!!!!!!)

I’m not going to lie, and say that pumps and stilettos are the most comfortable shoes in the world, because I will kick them bad boys off in a minute to put on some flats to chill in. But I love the way a pair of sexy heels make me feel. It’s like the entire attitude and confidence that the shoe possess, I begin to possess as well.

When I’m strutting in pumps, I feel taller and sexier. I guess more confident in the respect that with a fly ass pair of shoes, there is no denying How ”bad” I look.

I wonder if there’s a mental aspect to it?!?!? I mean when we put on rain boots or constructions boot, or raggedy ass sneakers does our personality or the way we feel about ourselves change accordingly. I mean I’m not expecting guys to walk around with heels on, so that they can feel sexier or confident but could it be we are what we walk in?!?!?

Let’s Play a Game: Sneakerality! – Look at pics A – H and let me know what each picture would make you feel like or how it would make you walk if you had them on your feet.















SOUND OFF: Please sound off if you have a Shoe Addiction, or if you feel that your shoes talk to you and alters your persona to some degree.

**For any further information on this topic google it, or click on the Psychology Today "The Psychology of Women - What is the Meaning of High Heels?"

Keep Strutting your stuff,
OOOO (Hugs No Kisses),

The InExperienced Expert

2 Responses to "Psychology of Heels!!!!!"

New to Love Says :
August 5, 2010 at 8:24 PM

think there's something to it...i already feel sexier looking at "F," even tho her shoes don't fit and there's no brown feet lol.

The InExperienced Expert Says :
August 6, 2010 at 5:43 PM

LoL . . . you can pretend it's what every color you want if it makes you feel better. Shoe "C" & "G" would definitely make me feel a little awkward. I don't even think I could make it through the day in shoe "C".

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